Okay so my head cannon that is the Highbloods, due to their cupcious nature have a more secret life to their clan. Males still fight to see who becomes the Grand Highblood while the females head more into the religion of their clan and raise the young. They are tought how to fight, sing, and many other things to show the Grand Highblood so he can pick them as his mate and if she is picked it is her job to be the matriarach of the clan. As the matriarch of the clan she is kept hidden to look like the highbloods follow the rules of the empress, again due to their violent nature, there is much question around them. So this is why they are never